Life is not supposed to be fair, it's supposed to be experienced

I keep having to remind myself that life just isn't fair but also that no-one ever told me it was going to be that way. I cannot be sneaky (I have tried lol) I cannot do harm to another deliberately and I still don't understand why people tell lies instead of living their truth so therefore when someone tells me something, I do my utmost to trust their integrity. This had led to personal and emotional pain whilst trying to get my 'head' around it. What have I learnt? Is it not to trust another, is it to disbelieve everyone? Is it to understand that some people are unable to be truthful, firstly to themselves and secondly to the world? Life isn't fair but Life was never promised to be fair. We have all been given life to experience it, to life it through Love, through Honesty and Compassion. If as of yet you are unable to feel any of these hold your hand out, place your heart there and wow, all of these things will be there. All you need to do it look and receive.